For many Michigan families, spring break is the perfect chance to get away from the cold winter, relax, and make memories together. But if you share custody, the holiday can also bring uncertainty: Who gets the kids? How long can you travel? What happens if plans overlap?

The good news is that with clear expectations and thoughtful communication, you can plan spring break travel without conflict and while avoiding last-minute stress for you and your children. Here’s what to do.

Start With What Your Parenting Plan Says

Your written parenting plan is the rulebook. Most Michigan custody orders outline how spring break is handled, including whether the break alternates from year to year, how many days each parent has, pick-up and drop-off times, and who gets priority if both parents want to travel.

Before booking anything, read the holiday section closely. If your plan alternates spring break annually, double-check if it’s your year or it your co-parent’s turn.

When your parenting plan is clear, stick to it. If it’s vague, default to open, respectful communication and get any agreements in writing.

Plan Early and Share Details Sooner Than Later

Travel involves logistics, and logistics take time. That’s why early planning is one of the best tools you have to prevent conflict.

If it’s your year for spring break, let your co-parent know your intent to travel as soon as possible, and share dates, locations, flight information, and lodging as soon as you have it so everyone is on the same page. The earlier you communicate, the less likely you are to run into last-minute objections or misunderstandings.

Make Decisions with Your Child’s Best Interests in Mind

Michigan courts always prioritize the best interests of the child, and parents should, too. This means considering:

• The child’s school schedule and activities
• The emotional impact of long-distance travel
• Whether the destination is safe and reasonable
• The importance of maintaining strong relationships with both parents

Spring break shouldn’t be a battleground. It should be an opportunity to give your child meaningful experiences while supporting stability and continuity.

Traveling out of State? Know What’s Required by the Courts

Most Michigan parenting plans require notifying the other parent before out-of-state travel, and some require written permission. If your trip involves crossing state lines, international travel, extended time away, or activities with inherent risks, make sure you know what your custody order requires.

If your co-parent refuses permission without good reason, you may need an attorney's assistance, but most disagreements can be resolved with clear and documented communication.

What To Do if Your Parenting Plan Doesn’t Address Spring Break

Some custody orders may skip spring holidays entirely. If that’s the case for your situation, you have options, including:

• Discuss expectations with your co-parent in advance
• Put any agreements in writing
• Consider updating your parenting plan to include holiday schedules
• Speak with a family law attorney if disagreements keep recurring

A more detailed parenting plan often prevents repeated holiday conflict and gives everyone peace of mind.

Have Questions? Call us at McKinney Vos PLLC

At McKinney Vos PLLC, we understand how challenging co-parenting can be, especially around holidays and school breaks. If you have questions about spring break travel, modifying your parenting plan, or resolving custody disputes in Michigan, we’re here to help you move forward with clarity and support. Reach out today to schedule a free consultation with our Michigan family law team.